Don’t Be a Douchebag


True story (only names are changed to respect privacy).

Rose had opened her WhatsApp one morning and was surprised to find a message from an unknown person, “Hi, this is George from LinkedIn.”

Most people know LinkedIn is a Business Platform. So, Rose politely answered the message, “Hi George, how are you?”

At all hours of the day and night, Rose started getting weird messages. It left her with no other choice but to block the number and delete her number from LinkedIn.

This story is about douchebags; I’m guessing you can imagine how the rest of the conversation went.

As a gentleman, you need to know:

We are equals and must be treated respectfully. This kind of action will never be cool. We are women and not objects. We are businesswomen; entrepreneurs who deserve to be appreciated and valued.

It does not matter if you are the boss or the employee. Sexual advancement and demeaning comments towards our gender show the lack of actual connection that some men have with their masculinity and their feelings. It does not make you MORE of a MAN…quite the contrary.

We do not want to be treated like a sack of meat, NO MORE.

It could be your sister, your daughter, your wife, or even your Mom going through that experience. A TRUE MAN would never allow this.

We are not the weaker sex. We are professional, smart, and unstoppable women who want to do business with other like-minded and heart centered individuals (men and women).

Equality and respect are starting to win many battles.Times are changing fast, and it’s all for good. We are waking up. And we have great men walking with us.

Even if you were raised with different beliefs and values, you can decide what to believe today and what will be the foundation you want to build in your life and your business.

Please choose wisely! Your present and future depend on it! Dare to be bold by challenging every belief you have!

How do you want to be remembered? Like a bully, a jerk, a douchebag, or a kind and powerful man who stood up for what is right, regardless of others’ opinion.


“Integrity is what you must do even when nobody is watching,” author unknown. Nowadays mistakes are even more impossible to hide because what happens on social media will remain forever.

Behave the way you want to be remembered; there is nothing sadder than being labeled as a “douchebag” forever.

You have the power to build, or destroy, your reputation. How would you like to be remembered?

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” ~Mahatma Gandhi



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