Are You A Giver Or A Blood Sucker?
Scenario #1: You walk into a meeting and all you see is prey, potential clients, people that will give you business and MONEY. You look at them wondering: What’s in there for me? Who can I take from them? What can they GIVE ME? What can I do or say to get their money? And suddenly you start feeling those fangs slowly growing, your heart beating faster and faster and think, “All my learned strategies will pay off today!”
Scenario #2: You walk into that same meeting with your biggest smile ever, you connect with every person you speak with, and you actually LIKE THEM. You ask them about their life, their dreams, you make a soul and heart connection with other HUMAN BEINGS. You start feeling your heart beating a little bit slowly because, OMG, each one of them is amazing, creative and so courageous. They have dreams, just like you.
You feel it, their hopes and fears and how much they have to offer the world. You hear their words louder than you hear your thoughts. You have nothing to prove. You are fully present! You are building connections that will last a lifetime. You want to give them value, maybe a word of encouragement, collaboration. You feel it, and it feels GOOD.
Which one of those two scenarios do you feel best describes you?
And, hey, I’m not here to judge. This isn’t about judgment. Many of us grew fangs in our past until we learned. We just didn’t know, but…
Let me tell you, my dear friend, those days are over. Now the whole world is craving for true connections. We all want to be “loved and humanized” versus “used as an object.”
By giving, collaborating and sharing that “sacred space,” you will create relationships based on abundance. You will move from “scare-city” to “abundan-city.”
Listen, pay attention to each word, to the feelings. You are in this world to serve! The more service you give, the more abundance is returned to you.
It sounds crazy, right? It sounds amazingly crazy!! I love it!
Remember: This whole world is all about connections, from your heart, your soul, your mind, in service to others. BE FULLY PRESENT and you will see that your business will grow as much as your heart opens. Now, it is up to you to decide how big you want your business to grow. Dream Big because you, my friend, were made for greatness.
Let me introduce you to Sylvia Chavez, an Extraordinary Love Coach with over 15 years experience serving women all over the world. Sylvia has cracked the code for true and for ever lasting love. She believes you can write your own love story beyond your wildest dreams without settling for anything less than what your soul and heart truly desire.