Hey, Check Your Ego at the Door


It was very early in the morning. As I walked through the door, I could see a beautiful lady standing at the counter.

“Good morning,” I said with a big smile. “How are you today?”

She looked at me very irritated and said: “Busy, Busy” and walked away, looking very upset for my interruption….

My ego was about to scream but, instead, I stopped myself and thought: “What if she didn’t get enough sleep last night?” “What if she is unhappy at work?” “What if she hates what she does?” “Maybe she hasn't had sex in months, or feels lonely, or is sick, maybe….”

Suddenly it hit me and I started counting my blessings…. “I have all of the above. I feel healthy. I do what I’m passionate about. I have the best husband ever, the best kids. I feel happy and LOVED.”

It took me mere seconds to remember how grateful I am. And I decided to send her my best energy and wish her well.

How many times have you been in a similar situation?

And maybe you allowed their bad energy to take away your beautiful smile or, even worse, ruin part of your day. Maybe you let it cause an unrepeatable moment with somebody you love.

How many times have you allowed somebody else’s mood or actions affect you and your performance, letting them impact how you feel? Or letting them impact what you create or don’t create, or what you think about yourself?

No matter what happens on the outside, or how awful somebody else treats you, or how bad somebody tries to make you feel, it is in your power to believe in yourself and not let them have power over you.


I am not saying it’s easy. Mostly, we are defined by what others think or expect from us. We allow their judgment about us determine what we think about ourselves. However, WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT YOU DOES NOT DEFINE WHO YOU ARE. You are much more than that.

Instead of giving away your power, 1) check your ego at the door, 2) take over your thoughts and improve your life, and 3) count your blessings and put all your love and energy into your dreams and YOUR life. You will see everything around you shift when you have the courage to do so.

Take a leap of faith in yourself.

Because….after all: You are the Creator of your Life. WHAT WILL YOU CREATE?

Sylvia Chavez


Let me introduce you to Sylvia Chavez, an Extraordinary Love Coach with over 15 years experience serving women all over the world. Sylvia has cracked the code for true and for ever lasting love. She believes you can write your own love story beyond your wildest dreams without settling for anything less than what your soul and heart truly desire.