Listen To Her & Maybe You’ll Win
I will say this in the most non-offensive way and I mean this with a kind heart. Women are crazy! There is something about them that just makes them crazy and they go crazier when they are dealing with someone who doesn’t understand them completely. I love them, and they are a treasure in this world.
You know I have coached a lot of guys in dealing with their breakups and you know the one thing they can’t freaking do? LISTEN! TO THEIR WOMAN OR SOON TO BE EX!
It’s harsh that I mentioned ex huh? But, it’s true! Most relationships don’t work well because some men lack listening skills. Wouldn’t be easier if you just listened to her rather than trying to get your point across with a punchline ringing in your head? I had gone through this issue before and I would lose every argument only because I was not really listening. It’s not a good feeling, and you definitely don’t want to make it worse.
One thing that most guys won’t admit is that their woman is right and that’s the problem most guys won’t tell me as their breakup coach. You’ll hear, “She’s wrong, she never listens, and she’s just saying nonsense.” There’s a lot of finger pointing and the problem is very visible. The lack of communication is real, and in most relationships, there is someone who is selfish enough not even to keep it real. I’m not saying try to win to battle with an argument, but if you listen to her and understand her, that’s a win, and that’s keeping it real.
Women are without a doubt very nurturing, loving, and giving. Those are some qualities they carry a lot stronger than men. Now I’m not putting down the men, but there are things women can do a lot better. However, it is amazing when you can see a woman and know her worth. But what’s even more amazing is when you can listen to her and understand her. Remember, an argument doesn’t have to happen when you are listening to her. It only happens when you don’t want to and that’s why a lot of guys lose a great woman.
Dominic Cruz is the CruzIN Social Media Marketer, ex-professional hip-hop dancer, & college graduate at SDSU. He has a strong passion for social media and for what it has to offer to business owners like you. He was raised in the city of Boston, MA and born in New Orleans, LA. Every day there is something new in the world of social media and there are multiple ways of getting paid using social media. It's the platform that brings you exposure and with more exposure is more opportunity to bring in GUARANTEED revenue.