Women, Love, and Food

3 Lessons I Learned from "America’s Love Queen" Sylvia Chavez


Here are 3 lessons that I learned from my good friend, "America’s Love Queen" Sylvia Chavez.

Lesson 1) A perfect man knows how to cook.

We have all heard the phrase,  "The way to reach a man’s heart is through his stomach." Sylvia was first told this by her mother when she was young. Sylvia is a love coach for women. When she asks her clients their vision of a perfect man, they always respond, "A man that knows how to cook." When they imagine the moments of love, they say cooking together. So, there is something very magical about food being connected to love.

Lesson 2) Cooking is a symbol of love and care.

The idea of a man cooking for you is a symbol of love and care. Taking the time, buying groceries, and knowing what it is (food) that you like, this is such a great show of indulgence and love. I'm showing that I care for you because I watched you and I know what is it that you like and I will prepare your favorite meal. Also, people can order take-out, use an app like GrubHub or Postmates to order their favorite meal. That is a form of caring but what counts is that they take time out of their busy day to construct a perfect meal.

Lesson 3) Food brings joy.  

Did you know that food is a source of joy? When people have a hole in their emotional body, in their heart, they experience something that is painful, and they lean on food to ease that pain. They grab whatever they have learned that will fill that hole.  Great food is like great sex, the more you have, the more you want.

Remember, catering to your significant other’s stomach will help bring your relationship closer!

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Yoichi Kato is an author, speaker, serial entrepreneur, and a Navy veteran. He is a master business networker & connector who is always connecting people. He is also an amazing Chef who provides private chef services all over San Diego. Yoichi loves to help others and see them thrive.